The art of submissive service

Service is the essence of domination, where our partners devote themselves to our pleasure! Imagine an exchange where every gesture is a declaration of devotion and respect. The submissive offers her time and energy, not only for domestic tasks, but also to assist her partner in all areas of her life.

In concrete terms, the service can range from tidying up the apartment, to preparing a good meal, or managing the diary... Every action is a gift, a way of saying "I'm here for you". It's a gift in its purest form, one that expects nothing in return.

For the Domme, it's a recognition of her authority. For the submissive, it's an opportunity to experience submission in a constructive and fulfilling way. The result? An incredibly strong, harmonious connection between the partners.

Queen So offers an exploration of service in your relationships, with concrete tools to enrich the relationship between you and your submissive(s).

Queen So

Since 2018, I've co-organized around 50 sex-positive events and retreats, driven by the desire to open up spaces for authentic exploration and expression. Having practiced BDSM for ten years, I have developed a sensitive and committed approach to the dynamics of power and consent. Today, I organize monthly femdom service dinners in Paris, showcasing a vision of power based on deference, rigor and devotion. For me, these spaces are not just places to play, but also grounds for social experimentation, where the place of the feminine in relationships of domination and submission is reinvented. With service at their core, these events question gender relations and traditional models of authority. Finally, I co-organize quarterly 3-day BDSM initiation (beginner level) and confirmation (experienced level) retreats, to pass on the basic tools and safety rules needed to embark on these practices with confidence. My events are designed to be inclusive, queer-friendly and as safe as possible. Consent is always central.